It is so easy to find faults. Why is appreciation so rare and so difficult? I think we are all confused. Isn’t “finding fault” the one, guilty for ruining a relationship? And still we get in the trap, it sets for us, and end up looking at the negativity, looking for all that we don’t like. Why can’t the goodness be more appealing? Isn’t it supposed to be the other way round? But we can’t stop being humans after all. We have few things so deep rooted, that we totally forget the rightness, and are in continuous search of wrong. Why can’t we love the people the way they are? Why does everything have to be rectified and made perfect? Some people need to be raw, they are beautiful that way. It’s a fault in us that we cannot accept the way they are. So before looking for a flaw in a person, think twice. No one is born perfect. The perfection can be a flaw sometimes.
Anushree Dutta 
good question🙂
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Thanks. I see people around me continuously looking for faults and complaining instead of appreciating the beauty. So these questions are a result of my personal experience.
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We see what we pay attention to 🙂 it’s like when somebody ask you if you saw a pink elephant and suddenly you see it everywhere.
When I see people like that I watch them with a smile, after all such a moment can be beautiful too😄
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Yes sure. That’s the right attitude.
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Ya so right people always ready to find out the faults but when it comes the appreciation part they just turn the back
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Yeah. That’s the way it is..😬
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Absolutely love this! “The perfection can be a flaw sometimes” is a clear description of how I must right the wrong with my relationships. Cheers and keeping inspiring me. https://missunderstoodparentalalienationnuggets.wordpress.com/
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Thanks a lot.😍
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Very thoughtful. I believe its got to do with domination over the other to gain control of and trying to force the behavior of self onto the other. It wont stop under situations involving undue influence or coercion
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Thanks for sharing your views. I second you.
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Exactly! I completely agree and tend to wonder about this myself often…
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😄😃
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Unfortunately, it is our mind that stands in between our soul and God, preventing us from loving the way our soul does. Mind love is just temporary, but soul love is timeless, without any conditions. If we see that God is living in all humans, then we can focus on this and love all people on this level, not on the level of our mind.
Thanks for sharing, my dear Anu 🙂
From heart to heart
Didi
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